Monday, November 15, 2010

You just wonder, sometimes

This world is a strange place, they keep talking about random acts of kindness and playing things forward..... you know I have always tried to be a good person all my life and I have always prided myself on trying to help people in many different ways. I will go the distance, I will be there in a heart beat when help is needed, but sometimes no matter how hard you try there are always certain people who always look at the neagtive side of everything and no matter how hard you try you just cannot change the way they think. And as of today I think I have finally decided I am just not going to try anymore. Anyone who wants my help can ask for it and they will have it. But if they don't ask, I will be silent.
Thanks for listening everyone, I needed to vent!

~Happiest when stitching~

8 comments:

gracie said...

Sorry....it sounds like someone has taken advantage of you...shame on them. Hope you will feel better now, and know that there are some of us, who hardly know you, who are thinking about you....hugs to you....

Tina said...

Some people just don't get it and yes it is a shame on them.
Some of us are kinder than others and somehow sometimes our kindness is taken for granted or advantage of, but just remember for the next time payback is a bitch lol...

jayne@~an eye for threads~ said...

you know, if you bleach that Welcome sign off of your forehead you may find some relief, but at this stage in your life even if it is not visual people always remember who they have walked over and old habits die hard. Hey, we could have a bleaching party and stitch while it drys.
As always

Kathleen said...

I know what you mean. I have gone out of my way to be nice to people, or do for them. Not only do they not appreciate it.....I usually get stabbed in the back by them to boot!
Love your blog design, just beautiful.
Hugs, Kathleen

Kerry said...

Thanks everyone for your support, sometimes it helps to vent. Today was a better day. You know what they say you can chose your friends but not your relatives!

Kerry said...

Kathleen,
I love your blog, I check it almost every day. I love all the news about Maine. We were there in October and we loved every minute. We were in the York and Kennebunkport area.

Kathy said...

Hello there, Thanks for leaving a comment over on my blog .. now I've found you! Sorry to hear you've had someone upsetting you. I always pity people like that .. imagine living inside their head all day instead of a nice kind head like yours! Rise above it ... easy to say, harder to do!
Love Kathy xxx

From Beyond My Kitchen Window said...

Sorry you had a bad day. You just can't figure some people out!!I have a feeling you will still be kind to that person. You are what you are.You can't turn off kindness. It's in your soul.